It's always your way or the highway. Your stubborn sense of self-will makes your life difficult at the least: totally unmanageable at its worst. Realize your way doesn't always work. In fact, it makes things worse. Learn to trust the benevolent power of the universe. When you're confused, angry or lost, find a few minutes of meditation. Quiet the noise in your head and ask for an intuition. If you're really in tune, you'll know the next right move.