Prepare to become privy to a wonderful secret, at least one. The tricky part is that you may need to keep this a secret for a while, and as wonderful as you'll be feeling, that may not be easy. But if you really try, you'll be able to pull it off. And afterward, think of how wonderful you'll feel about not letting the cat out of the bag: and how smug you'll feel when everyone who knows you wants to know how you managed.