Are your partners showing you how they value you? If they aren't, then it doesn't count. In romance, work, and school, the people you're connected to are coming close to taking you for granted. Before that happens, try to encourage them to share their feelings with you by sharing your feelings with them. This doesn't have to be a touchy-feely kind of exchange; it can be a simple statement of fact. You need to know where you stand, so tell your partners where they stand with you.