Amid the excitement and activity, what you really want from your trip may be just beyond your grasp at the beginning of the week. Rather than getting frustrated, consider rethinking your goals; and don't forget to communicate them, that way someone can help you with good advice and travel tips, particularly after wednesday. If you're traveling with a group, now could be the time for you to take charge. The stories you hear this weekend: and the questions you ask: help you learn a great deal about your destination and about yourself.