Get off the fence and be clear when communicating with a group. You've been trying too hard for too long to be everything to everybody, and it's making you crazy and not winning you the fans you hoped it would. (not only that, but you're not feeling too hot about yourself lately either. ) you have only your self-respect to gain by speaking up for what you believe in. And any losses you might incur, well, the universe promises that it will ultimately be your gain.