Today, a direct relationship exists between how easy something is to attain and how worthwhile it is pursue. If someone is batting their eyelashes at you, dying for some attention, they're not the person you should be checking out right now. Seek out the person who stands apart from the crowd, who doesn't work so hard for the approval of others. This person is not playing hard to get: they are just being themselves. Although challenging, strike up a conversation. The banter might be worth it.