If it seems too grandiose, go for it! Your ideas are truly enlightened, so go ahead and build that wacky birdhouse or the staircase to nowhere. Become a beekeeper, get a feng shui consultant for your home, or do a rain dance in the yard. Think of how many times you hear 'no,' then tell yourself 'yes. ' red paint can always be toned down later with a white sponged finish.