If someone asks you what you want today, you could be surprised when you can't come up with an answer. It's not that you have everything you need; it's that you really haven't given enough thought to what you want, and that's a problem. It's not selfish to put energy into achieving your own desires instead of the desires of other people. In fact, it's necessary. Put your own needs on the front burner, today. Figure out your priorities so you'll be ready next time.