Office romances can be risky, but cupid's arrow can strike anywhere. You and your new sweetie may have to go incognito to avoid being the butt of the office gossip. Have a lunch at a quiet italian restaurant where you can share a bowl of spaghetti and meatballs, a la 'lady and the tramp. ' it won't be as obvious as making moony eyes at each other in front of the office vending machine.