Be wary of any people who like to take the problems in their private life and broadcast them for the world to hear. Ignore them as much as you can: their quest for attention is not admirable, and they are not trying to gain attention in a legitimate way. Airing dirty laundry might titillate some gossip mongers, but it is only going to confuse an already confusing situation. Steer clear of the drama that is unfolding and just focus on your own life.