There's so much going on underneath the surface right now that you might not be able to understand everything. So give yourself plenty of time to determine your next move. Think things through rationally, and try not to let your desire to be liked limit your options. Sometimes you have to tell people things they don't want to hear. Resist making any judgments on the behaviors of others. If it's not your cup of tea, say so: but don't condemn the tea altogether!