Before you say what's on your mind when someone does something outrageous today, stop for a moment. Review the situation. Put yourself in their place and their behavior might make a lot more sense. Things that affect you might not be meant to affect you, so don't jump to any conclusions or take this person's actions personally. Be objective, analytical and cautions: listen to your conservative side today and give people the benefit of any doubt. They'll do the same for you.