When it comes to starting a new romance, you should err on the side of modesty right now. Instead of focusing exclusively on having a hot and sizzling affair with someone right off the bat, just be happy with the warm connection you have. Develop it slowly. Too much heat too early could just mean that you two will end up fizzling out faster. A slow burn will give both of you enough time to really appreciate your connection and build upon it in a respectful way.