If you're looking for more insight into your latest dilemma, turn to your coworkers or classmates. You need to consult with someone who is either in the same situation or has been there before. There is nothing better than first-hand experience to help you figure out what to do. When you talk to them, don't be mad if they leave out some minor details: they're doing it for your own good. Some things you have to learn on your own.