You're notoriously generous: and notoriously uncomfortable on the other side of the fence. So even if you really need help, before you can bring yourself to ask, you always end up doing battle with that nagging inner voice that tells you to buck up and handle it yourself. Someone you've helped in the past will come to you now, however, offering: no, insisting that you accept: their help. Don't be humble or modest or anything else. Just say thank you. It's your turn.