You need to start celebrating your uniqueness and stop comparing yourself to others! You have your own personality and it's wonderful: so what if it prevents you from clicking with every single person you meet? It's no fun to always get along with everyone, anyway. Conflict is part of life, and having a preference for who you want to spend time with shows that you have taste. And the people who are in your circle of friends know how special they are. That's what matters.