Today your vision will be clouded by wishful thinking: you are hearing just what you want to hear and living life in a bubble. This perspective is okay for the short term, but it will be a problem if you let it continue for too long. You need a reach out for reality check soon: find out what's really going on with your people and how you can get involved in their lives again. The more you see people for who they are (warts and all), the more you will love them.