You've stepped back and have been letting life move on around you without getting involved, and that was smart: it kept you out of the current drama. But today, you might need to consider getting back into an active role. But if you decide to rejoin this rat race, just be sure to take things slowly. Baby steps will lead you down the right path: and possibly into the right person's arms. Let yourself be taken care of a little while longer: you deserve the attention.