Someone you care about has been going through some dramatic change. They should serve as an inspiration to you. If you want to transform some aspect of your own life, you could learn a lot by watching how they are handling things. It might be a case of following what they do (or perhaps doing the opposite of what they do), but you should pay attention. If the changes you want are in a relationship, encourage your partner to watch the unfolding drama as well. You could both learn a thing or two.