Mata hari has temporarily set up shop at your place, and she's doing all of her deals from your phone or email: in your voice or handwriting. Now that you know, you'll expect what tumbles out of your mouth to be extremely seductive, intriguing and passionate. The thing is, your sweetie won't be expecting the same, and may feel overwhelmed. What to do? Well, if it's the good kind of passion, have at it. If it's the other kind, force yourself to be gentle.