You might not feel comfortable being a joiner, but you should consider aligning yourself with a group today. There are many perks you're missing out on, not to mention the fact that spending time with a diverse group of people on a regular basis will open your world to all sorts of exciting new stimulation. Seek out groups based on topics or issues you're interested in, or maybe in relation to a pastime you enjoy. Becoming a member is the first step to becoming a leader.