You've been pulling hard in a tug of war with someone, but today it might be wise for you to just let go of the rope: and send the other person flying. By switching up the balance of things, you are sure to end up on top. If all you want to do is win, there are other ways to get that victory than to exhaust yourself over and over again with someone who will never give an inch. You've got to stop this strategy and start thinking of something new.