Sure, they're making you crazy. They're related to you. It's part of their job to make you crazy. So, if they seem a little too 'focused' on your affairs at the moment, try not to get too upset about it. If they didn't care, they wouldn't bother getting involved. Your best bet is to patiently explain that you're a grown-up now, and while you appreciate their efforts, you've got a plan in mind. And don't forget to say thank you.