All that hibernating gave you a chance to do some thinking, and you've arrived at a decision with regard to a certain someone who's been feeling more and more like a weight around your neck. You're all done playing this game, and there's no talking you out of it. Now you have to tell them about it, however. And while you may want to do it tonight, that will only result in a highly volatile situation. Just wait a day or two: if you can.