Getting too obsessed about learning something new about your latest crush is not wise right now: there are other people in your life, and frankly they deserve your time and energy more than this cutie does. Pay attention to the time-tested relationships in your life. New loves or even new friendships are exciting, but do they add anything more than a little bit of excitement to your life? Call up one of your oldest friends. Remind yourself why you cherish them in your life.