Friendships, like any other kind of relationship, require give-and-take: it's only natural to switch back and forth between you in terms of who has control. But if you are feeling like you've been giving a lot and not getting much in return, then today is the day to communicate this to your friend. If they're just not getting what you're saying, then save the conversation for a time when they can give you their full attention. Don't push it too hard today.