You've been attracting some flighty people who are looking to you to make the tough choices in their life that they in fact need to be making themselves. Today, their dependency on you is going to get on your nerves. It's tough to shove someone out of the nest, but it's tough love time. Let them know that while you care about them and support them, you cannot have this much responsibility in their life. They might not like what they hear, but you have to say it before they get too dependent.