Everyone has issues: we all know that: but someone close might have so many that it practically adds up to a year-long subscription! While you want to play the best friend, relative or sweetie you can, you just can't solve their problems on your own: so stop trying. It just stresses you both out in the end. Try to be supportive, sympathetic and attentive: and most importantly, have a little faith that they'll find their way through this.