You aren't really all that interested in hearing anyone else's opinion about what you feel is your business and yours alone: you have your own individual style of doing things. Friends and family members might want to put in their two cents or offer you constructive criticism, but you're in no mood to hear any of it. Politely but firmly decline offers of help. Tomorrow you may feel differently, but right now you have a deep-seated need to do it all on your own. Good luck!