It feels as if everyone has an opinion about how you should run your life right now: your friends, family members and even a few of your busybody coworkers will have a few words of advice. You might not want to know what they think, but they'll tell you anyway: and chances are it will be pretty interesting. Sure, little of it will be helpful, but they love thinking that they are helping you. So listen to them with an open mind. You have nothing to lose.