If things in your social life aren't going the way you want them to right now, the last thing you should do is throw yourself a pity party! No one really wants to be invited to one of those. Instead, try to focus on taking control of your life again. Don't let your emotionality ruin the things you want to do. Just because you don't have every little thing lined up doesn't mean that you can't go further towards your goal. It's time to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start having fun.